Friday 1 December 2017

Pay attention to your thoughts, because they become words.
Pay attention to your words, because they become actions.
Pay attention to your actions, because they become habits.
Pay attention to your habits, because they become your character.
Pay attention to your character, because it is your fate.

Talmud / The Decision Book

Wednesday 1 November 2017

     The air of the room chilled his shoulders. He stretched himself cautiously under the sheets and lay down beside his wife. One by one, they were all becoming shades. Better pass boldly into that other world, in the full glory of some passion, than fade and wither dismally with age. He thought of how she who lay beside him had locked in her heart for so many years that image of her lover's eyes when he had told her that he did not wish to live.
     Generous tears filled Gabriel's eyes. He had never felt like that himself towards any woman, but he knew that such a feeling must be love. The tears gathered more thickly in his eyes and in the partial darkness he imagined he saw the form of a young man standing under a dripping tree. Other forms were near. His soul had approached that region where dwell the vast hosts of the dead. He was conscious of, but could not apprehend, their wayward and flickering existence. His own identity was fading out into a grey impalpable world: the solid world itself which these dead had one time reared and lived in, was dissolving and dwindling.
     A few light taps upon the pane made him turn to the window. It had begun to snow again. He watched sleepily the flakes, silver and dark, falling obliquely against the lamplight. The time had come for him to set out on his journey westward. Yes, the newspapers were right: snow was general all over Ireland. It was falling on every part of the dark central plain, on the treeless hills, falling softly upon the Bog of Allen and, farther westward, softly falling into the dark mutinous Shannon waves. It was falling, too, upon every part of the lonely churchyard on the hill where Michael Furey lay buried. It lay thickly drifted on the crooked crosses and headstones, on the spears of the little gate, on the barren thorns. His soul swooned slowly as he heard the snow falling faintly through the universe and faintly falling, like the descent of their last end, upon all the living and the dead.

The Dead / Dubliners

Sunday 1 October 2017

My life has no purpose, no direction, no aim, no meaning, and yet I am happy. I can't figure it out. What am I doing right?

Charles Schulz

Friday 1 September 2017

Look at the sky. Ask yourself: 'Has the lamb eaten the flower, yes or no?' And you will see how everything is different.

Tuesday 1 August 2017

One fact which must be appreciated for applying this theory is the essential individual uniqueness of each of our minds, of each of our brains. It is no easy work to analyze either one's self or someone else. This theory is not, cannot be, a miracle key to a given human mind. It is devilishly hard work digging up enough of the basic facts and enough of the basic programs and metaprograms controlling each mind from within to change its poor operations into better ones. This theory can help one to sort out and arrange stored information and facts into more effective patterns for change. But the basic investigation of self or other selves is not easy or fast. Our built-in prejudices, biases, repressions and denials fight against understanding. Our Unconscious automatically controls our behavior. Eventually we may be able to progress farther. It may take several generations of those willing to work on these problems.

Programming and Metaprogramming in the Human Biocomputer
John Lilly

Saturday 1 July 2017

Until the 1980s, change within companies was usually dictated from the top. The CEO made the decision, and the middle and bottom levels implemented it. The underlying values were control, consistency and predictability. The result: employees often did not know why something was being changed and also did not understand what was expected of them in the future. With the growing importance of psychology in business studies, a new approach to change emerged. Employees were no longer expected to submissively obey ('Of course!'), but to think for themselves ('Why are we doing that?'). The point was: change has to be understood if it is to be carried out effectively. Change management has developed into a discipline in its own right; today there are hundreds of models that deal with the subject, including pioneering ones like John Kotter's eight-stage model. But what most of them don't take account of is that change is rarely a painless process. Because change presupposes movement, which leads to friction. Friction causes pain. Every change - whether in a private or wider context - requires sacrifice and effort.

The Change Book

Thursday 1 June 2017

Duizm głosi, że każde życie zna dwie śmierci, przednią i tylną, to jest tę sprzed narodzin i tę po agonii. Teologowie dychtońscy za szperklapy się brali ze zdziwienia, słysząc potem ode mnie, że my tak na Ziemi nie myślimy i że są Kościoły, interesujące się tylko jednym, mianowicie przednim bytowaniem pośmiertnym. Nie mogli pojąć, czemu ludziom przykro myśleć o tym, że ich kiedyś nie będzie, a nie jest im tak samo przykro rozmyślać o tym, że ich przedtem nigdy nie było.

Podróż dwudziesta pierwsza
Lem

Monday 1 May 2017

Mockingbirds don't do one thing but make music for us to enjoy. They don't eat up people's gardens, don't nest in corncribs, they don't do one thing but sing their hearts out for us. That's why it's a sin to kill a mockingbird.

Harper Lee

Saturday 1 April 2017

Gdyby to tylko on ją kochał, ba! Ale ona odwzajemniła uczucia... Kto nie rozumie tej prostej prawdy, kto myśli, jak pouczały naszych dziadów ich wiktoriańskie guwernantki, że umiemy kochać innych, a nie siebie w tych innych, ten niech lepiej nie bierze do ręki zasmucającego romansu, jakim obdarzył nas pan Marcel Coscat. Jego Robinson wymarzył sobie dziewczynę, której nie chciał oddawać jawie do końca, ponieważ ona była nim, ponieważ z tej jawy, która nigdy nas nie opuszcza, nie ma innego, niż śmierć, przebudzenia.

Les Robinsonades
Lem

Wednesday 1 March 2017

Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars.

Gibran

Wednesday 1 February 2017

Some people come into your life as a blessing.

And others come into your life as a lesson.

Sunday 1 January 2017

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.

Aristotle